Dear Tipsy Cups,

I don’t believe you ruined you chance. If he understands that it was an accident, it shouldn’t be a problem. Just give it a day and call him up. Try to put the evening it happened into the conversation. Just see what he says. 

Good luck,
Mary Smith

_____________________________________________________________________________

Dear Mary Smith,
I saw this really cute guy, my friend, at a restaurant the other day. We ate together and talked, and had a good time. But when we got up to leave, I hit my soda with my arm, and it spilled all over his shirt and pants. We were both thoroughly embarrassed and left quickly after that. I even thought that he might ask me out! Did I ruin my chance?
Yours Truly,
Tipsy Cups